Sunday, May 21, 2017

Tree Truth

Behold, the squirrel highway...

I like trees.  Did you know that yet?  

It isn’t uncommon for my family to be travelling in the car and for me to start screaming in delight as we pass a tree that is in some way fabulous.  They make me really happy.  Which is why, I never gave a second thought to the large tree that had become a squirrel highway behind my back yard.  I enjoyed the way the critters used it as a thoroughfare to get from my yard to the next.  I didn’t mind its precarious angle, it gave visual interest to my normal yet awesome back yard view.  That was until the last windstorm.   

The morning after the blustery event found me drinking a cup of tea while starting off in the distance.  Over the course of the morning, I noticed a few of my squirrel friends misjudging their launch onto the squirrel highway.  The usual grace with which they leapt onto the tree seemed sadly lacking.  As if they were expecting to run and land but instead fell a fraction of a second longer than expected.  There was more scrabbling than I remembered.  

Being a scientist at heart, I began theorizing.  Option A:  The squirrels were involved in a game of truth or dare and were making the jump to the fallen tree with their eyes closed.  Not outside the realm of possibility but unlikely considering their respect for workplace safety.  Option B:  The squirrels had been drinking during the storm and were still tipsy thus their balance was affected.  I thought this less likely as it was before noon.  All obvious possibilities eliminated I ventured outside.  One look up revealed the storm had caused a shift in the trees’ position.  It had slid slightly during the storm and the angle of its descent had increased.  It was a bit worrisome to be sure.  

All this explains how I met my lovely tree owning neighbor, who immediately saw the need for action.  Which was how, this weekend, I watched a tree crew take down the monster tree with winches and ropes and chainsaws, oh my.  

It was amazing.

Watching anyone perform a skill with mastery is a treat.  Doesn’t matter if it is making tortillas, cleaning windows, or scooping ice cream, there is a fascination involved in watching someone perform a task with excellence.   Watching these logger dudes was a brilliant example of taking a large job and breaking it into smaller tasks.  Have you ever had a large problem my friend?  The kind you can’t get your arms or mind around, that makes you wonder, “What am I supposed to do next?”  How I wish you could have watched these guys take down my neighbor’s tree my friend, it was such a life lesson.  

The first noticeable characteristic of the crew was the amount of communication between members.  After talking their way through the entire procedure, the team would stop continually to check in with its members after each step.  They would offer suggestions and get direction and their conversation was always focused on the step in front of them.  A difficult maneuver was worked out two steps in advance, but always included turning off the chainsaws after the completion of each task to ensure everyone was in agreement. 

Have you surrounded yourself with counsel as you attempt to tackle the mountains in front of you my friend?  A woman I deeply admire shared with me one day, how she had managed to keep her husbands’ business running as she lost him to cancer.  “I ran all the business decisions through 3 people I asked to stand beside me during his illness,” she told me.  “I was completely consumed by grief, I knew I needed people to walk alongside me to check my thinking, if we weren’t in agreement, I didn’t proceed.”  Perhaps your circumstance is not as devastating as that of my friend, but are you making use of those who are not as emotionally invested as yourself? Are you getting any input other than your own?  

A second quality of the team was the way they remained flexible as they worked through their task.  Once or twice a problem arose and it seemed progress was at a standstill.  Inevitably, as it was discussed and answer would appear.  The leader of the team was not wed to his own ideas, he was willing to allow others to take responsibility for the next step if it kept everyone safe and met the goal.  In one case the leader put forth a suggestion and started to enact it, but then changed his mind and asked his team member to take over due to an unexpected shift in the trees weight.  He was willing to concede his idea was not as safe as his crew members’ and reworked the plan though it meant relinquishing control of the circumstance.  It is my observation that I do my best work when I keep my goal in mind, rather than my role.  I am more open to suggestions and more willing to work with others when I keep the overall aim in sight.  

The last thing I noticed about the crew was their desire to execute each step with excellence and how happy there were upon completion of a task.  Words of encouragement flowed freely and they seemed genuinely thankful when a small step went right.  I expect this has something to do with the high cost of mistakes when gravity is involved but it was interesting to watch a group of pagans behave in such a ridiculously positive manner.  I’m involved in tasks far more menial each week and I don’t think I’m near as positive with my team.  I roll my eyes a lot and am far more amazed when things go right than I am thankful.  I expect if I reinvest my energies in thankfulness I will gain more than I will for eye rolling, I need to remember that in the moment.  

And so I’m praying for us this week my friend, as we tackle the problems in front of us.  That we will be thankful, teachable, sober minded and that keep our eyes open on the goal.  That the dangerous slippery places will be brought low, as we trample them under our feet.


Thanking God for you,
xox Karen

Sunday, May 14, 2017

Happy Mother's Day

God sees all the true Mother hearts He created, event the sneaky ones without children. 


For God is not unjust. He will not forget how hard you have worked for him and how you have shown your love to him by caring for other believers, as you still do.
Hebrews 6:10
Dear Friend,

Hello!  I've missed you!  Are you well?  Because it is mothers day I would like to write something profound, but frankly I'm frightened to post because I'm so stupid tired I shouldn't be at a computer.    Right now my entire house smells like bbq-ed pork, my kitchen sink is lost somewhere on the counter and i have over 7 loads of laundry sitting on various chairs throughout my domain.  I have two hours before I need to leave the house, before then I need to bleach my kitchen and make potato salad for 40.  Not sure about how I spend my time... 

This week has been filled with joy, mild hysteria and vats of tea.  I have been working all week on a school project, alongside many devoted mothers. Some of these ladies have children. Mothers day can be hard on those without born children and I wanted to state/shout/affirm that God sees all sacrifice, selflessness and service.  He knows and celebrates true motherhood regardless of how off kilter this day has become.  Some of you have aching hearts, oh hold on!  God sees your suffering.   I am praying for you, especially today.    

To my dear friends who are single mothers and widows, may I remind you that not having a husband does not diminish your role as a mother.  On the contrary, your solitude has forged your role in a fire that brings out its raw beauty. You are ridiculously amazing.  

Motherhood: could a word hold more hope, love and pain?  

Be kind today...be thankful...be sad...call someone you love ( your Mama if you can) and thank God for mothers.

Such an achey, wonderful broken day,

xoxKaren 






Sunday, April 30, 2017

Moss Management

"A rolling stone gathers no moss, but leaves a trail of busted stuff".
Dave Matthews.


My car is growing moss.

I’ve never grown moss on my car before.  I’m kind of proud of it.  Not that it’s been hard.  In my corner of the world precipitation records have been falling like.…rain.  (See what I did there?)  We’ve had more rain fall between Oct 1-April 30 than since records were started 125 years ago.

I haven’t managed to get outside to mow the moss yet.  The lawn has been too damp and the thought of 4X-ing the lawn mower through the mud does not appeal.  May hasn’t arrived without my lawn being cut before.   The 37 blades of grass are getting quite long. 

It’s been soggy. 

The awesome thing about moss is the ease with which it grows given the correct conditions.  Moss develops from spores not seeds so, without any effort on your part, nature can send moss free of charge to your lawn, deck, and/or flower bed.  

Truth is, I like moss.  Google defines moss as, “a small flowerless green plant that lacks true roots, growing in low carpets or rounded cushions in damp habitats and reproducing by means of spores released from stalked capsules.”  In the right conditions roots aren’t needed to grow this green marvel.  It’s all about the environment.

A lot of things get blamed on the environment these days: weather, rodent populations and my daughter’s inability to make her bed in the morning.  Faithful Merriam-Webster states the environment is composed of “the complex of physical, chemical and biotic factors that act upon an organism or an ecological community and ultimately determine its form and survival.”  For pride’s sake, I like to pretend I have evolved beyond my surroundings but lately I’m not so sure.

As I write this, I’m sitting at a table in the presence of someone who dislikes me.   We are alone in a large room and she is doing a "fair-to-middlin" job of ignoring me.  When however, her friend steps into the room she gets mystically empowered and (like our wondrous plant friend) manages to broadcast her dislike and release spores of malice.  Several of them have gotten straight up my nose. 

I've spent the better part of ½ an hour biting my tongue trying to be pleasant, but it's not working. I am failing on many levels and it's vexing.  All the while, I am wondering how Jesus expects me to rise above the nonsense. 

There my friend is the challenge.  How do you find Jesus in a toxic place?  Or metaphorically speaking, how do you live in a damp cave and not end up covered in moss?  Something that produces no flowers, fruit or roots and is the antithesis of every Christian plant illustration? 

"Do no harm" is a good start but Jesus isn’t much on the externals.  I can smile sweetly all I want, but if my heart is to run the woman over with my van, Jesus isn’t fooled. Part of the problem is my belief that these types of victories come without difficulty.  They really don’t.  Scripture offers conviction and direction, but unless I wrestle, grapple and otherwise attempt to kick the stuffing out of my horrible attitude I’m not going to get very far. 

Who said prayer was boring?

“You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven” Matthew 5:43-45

“Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you” Ephesians 4:32

Can I be honest my friend?  This type of kindness and forgiveness doesn’t always come easily.  Might I encourage you to stay in the battle?  Keep investing in prayer, bringing your needs and lack before the Lord.  He is ridiculously faithful.  Though it will take you longer than you want, eventually a victory will come.   He is able to change both hard and broken hearts.  He is the way to find peace in turmoil.  He is a solid rock: dependable, unchanging and utterly moss free.

I’m praying for you this week.
xoxKaren

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