Weeping might last through the night, but joy come with the morning. Psalm 30:5 |
I was half way down the bric-a brac isle, between the
ornate egg cups and jalapeno salt shakers when he came toward me. My nose caught his approach before I realized his trajectory. A jolt of
adrenaline, and I turned my body automatically pointing my shoulder at his
approaching form, and arranged my keys in my hand just in case I needed something
sharp. He stopped several inches too
close. “I’m Gregory.” He yelled, by way
of informing me. “Today is my birthday;
would you write Happy Birthday here?”
Gregory handed me a spiral ring binder and a black pen. I blinked.
I wasn’t processing quickly enough for Gregory, who waved the book and
pen at me in order to move me along.
I took the book and winced, bracing myself so I didn’t
back up; countering my human instinct to withdraw from the smelly, unfamiliar
stranger. Things were moving a bit too quickly. Juggling my keys, I grasped the book and
managed to scratch, “Happy Birthday Gregory. From Karen” on the lined
page. He took the book back and held it
close to his face. “Your “e” is really
messy, could you fix that please?” He
passed the book back to me and pointed to the offending letter. “Sure I can, sorry about that,” Was my halfhearted
reply as I sized up my handwriting coach.
Gregory was in this 50’s, brush cut grey hair, hands
stained by tobacco and excrement, dirty clothes and nice grey eyes, that hinted
toward a world that existed only in his head.
“That’s better,” he took back his book.
I stood looking at him, not sure what to say next. I didn’t want to be
rude, but as a well marbled little female, I’m not trained to socialize with
strangers. I suddenly regretted not drawing a flower on this birthday note. He looked at me. “I go to church.”
“Do you? So do I.” I countered.
“Really? Then will you pray for me? I’m having a bad day.” Gregory, seeming to understand some rule
about prayers and body placement, moved very close to me but tipped his head inches
from mine, much like a child leaning over to receive a blessing. Somewhere in my head I observed that I was
having a very strange interaction with Gregory. Things seemed to be moving very
quickly and I was in response mode. I offered up a quick prayer on my behalf
first. “Well Lord, I have nothing for
Gregory, but I can pray, he got me on a good note there.” And I stood, with Gregory, whose eyes were
closed and his hands and book clutched to his chest. I stood relaxed, as I took a while in the bric-brac
isle, and prayed for this man named Gregory, whose birthday it may or may not
be, but who understood loss and what it was like to be despised. I suddenly wished I had markers in my
purse.
I finished praying and without a word, Gregory walked
away. I stood there starting, when
suddenly he darted back. “I need something
else,” he shouted, I noticed his eyes were teary. “I’m having a crisis. I hate Everett. I don’t want to live there. I don’t want to die there. I want to move. Can we pray about that?” His volume was loud, and he was too close
again and then tipped his body over to pray.
Bewildered, I agreed and I prayed again.
I prayed for a man who had no resources, no ability and little
agency. I really prayed. How I wanted the Lord to come and touch this
life, to give him good things and to ease his suffering. I wanted Gregory to walk out of that junk
store straight into the arms of Jesus so that he could help. I finished praying and opened my eyes. “Thank you.” Gregory said and then darted
off.
I stood there for a while, as other customers walked
by, trying to compose my thoughts. I
continued to walk the isles when Gregory reappeared yet again to ask me to
rewrite my name. I did so, and as I
handed the book back I wondered why I didn’t just try rewrite the whole thing
with nicer writing.
I left the store 20 minutes later without bumping into
Gregory. Stopping to buy the girls a
drink, I scanned the street for Gregory, wishing I could buy him a milkshake on
his birthday. Wishing I had more to give
to someone who obviously occupied the lowest caste my society afforded. Wishing I was better equipped, better
prepared and just a better person who could do more.
And so this week, I was wondering if you might join me
in praying for Gregory. For a man who
finds himself where he doesn’t want to be, living a life that is
difficult. Praying for many of those who
are in similar circumstances and that by God’s grace we might do more than just
scribble a note in their book as they stand by awkwardly waiting. That we might take the time to write a note
of hope, embellished with all the kindness God has lavished upon us.
xoxKaren
PS my brother in law or sister took this photo, they were in Malawi.
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