Doggone it!! (repost 2012)

This dog looks nothing like my mother in law's.

Hello My Friend!

I am cleaning my garage!  I found a Costco sized bag of lemons that I misplaced somehow and now my storage space smells of rank citrus.  So I'm pulling out an old post from 6 years ago to keep us all company while I clean.  I was at the farm this week, so next week I will post another farm adventure.  Spoiler alert: holistic veterinary medicine.  IT WAS ALARMING. 

I do hope you are getting outside and enjoying time with those you love.

xoxKaren

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I like to think I was holding it together fairly well until they called and asked for money to kill the dog.  The dog in question is a delightful fellow, a morbidly obese, epileptic, diabetic creature who was the apple of my mother in law’s eye.  Somehow, an extended family member phoning my husband in order to obtain funds to secure his canine brother’s inevitable demise, a mere four days after his mother’s funeral caught me by surprise.  What was more surprising was the volume at which the request was made and all the additional comments that adorned the twenty minute yell fest.   The net effect of the horrendous encounter was interesting.   Days later, I am still shaking my head.

There are seasons when life becomes very difficult.  Seasons when every time you turn around, another crisis descends and you are left feeling inadequate and perplexed.   My family has been fighting stormy weather for two years now.  The last 6 months have been some of the most difficult I have experienced in my 42 years on the planet.   It wasn’t the death of a precious family member that had me frightened this time, it was the bizarre behavior of family members I had known for years that had me reeling.

Disappointment is defined in the dictionary as, “the feelings of sadness or displeasure caused by the nonfulfillment of one's hopes or expectations.”    Unmet expectations are difficult to avoid if you are going to live on this planet with any success.  Sooner or later, we all must deal with disappointment.  It is one thing to have an unrealistic expectation of a person regardless of how self aware you might be.  It is another to have an expectation of basic decency dashed by those we care about.  

Following the example of the righteous through the ages, I shut myself in a bedroom in order to pray.  I was having a crisis and the best thing to do was to get Godly and seek the face of my Lord.  I would like to report that after 2 hours of prayer I was feeling cleansed and peaceful; except that would be a blatant lie.  It didn’t work.  I could not sit still.  The desire to jump in my car and accidentally on purpose run certain people over was too strong.  After five minutes, my attempt at Godly behavior failed and I jumped in the shower.  When the going gets tough, the tough get in the shower.  It wasn’t as righteous as my first attempt at finding peace of mind, but it would do in a pinch. 

Do you sing in the shower dear friend?  I don’t want to get too personal too quickly but it is proven fact that those who can sing loudly while naked live longer and happier lives than those who cannot.  Truth.  There is an art to singing in the shower.  You have to pace yourself and keep an eye on the hot water levels.  Because I was angry I started with a rousing chorus of”Highway to Hell” and swapped out all the “I’m” and “Satan” lyrics with the names of family members.  I was starting to feel better.  It was at that moment of smug and naked satisfaction that I felt a gentle nudge from the Lord.  It was as if He tapped on the shower curtain and said, “No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate the one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money. ” I was suddenly aware that unless God moved powerfully, what I was singing was true.  Certain family members would be going to hell.  Their lack of loving behavior was a true indication of the condition of their hearts.  What vanity to take such a distressing situation personally. I stopped singing turned off the shower and returned to my room to pray.

Prayer came much easier this time.

8 We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; 9 persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed. 10 We always carry around in our body the death of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be revealed in our body. 11 For we who are alive are always being given over to death for Jesus’ sake, so that his life may also be revealed in our mortal body. 12 So then, death is at work in us, but life is at work in you….
 16 Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. 17 For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. 18 So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal. 2 Cor 4: 8-12, 16-18

Lord Jesus,
It is so easy to be overcome by the troubles and suffering you allow to knock on our door.  Have your way Lord and help me not to become the victim of anothers' unkindness.  I ask for the grace to see them as you do and to allow my emotions to drive me to prayer.  Forgive me Lord, where I want things to be easier.  I do not value the same things as you Jesus. 


Give us strength Lord Jesus, this road is hard.  Help us not to take offense and to fix our eyes on eternal things.  Remind me what the eternal things are Lord; I rarely remember to look up.  Help me to rejoice through tears, because you are still lovely.
Amen.